Hi Jkdonofrio.
Welcome to my life of uncertainty.
I know exactly what you are talking about and i'm living the nightmare, still the doctors is denying me the truth . I Believe thal minor or what is defective in my cells and circulatory system is causing all my problem.
I got to a point that i'm exausted from the doctors merry -go- round,and i have given up, expecting a solution from the doctors.
I have read and heard a lot of different history to convince me that I'm not alone and I'm not mental either,I just live in a part of the world where the doctors are not trained or dont care about people with thallasemia.
So I've learnt not to rely on them.
I 'm now taking good care of myself by maintaining my cholestrol level managing my bloodpressure ,ensure a low fat anf low sugar intake and I am almost like a recluse ,that is to minimise the stressfull situation that is bad for my well-being.
The positives is that i found this web-site and i'm learning about the blood disorder and this able me to undestand my body and my ailments.
I hope you get the same peace of mind and support from this site and undestanding to make your life and your daughters life manageable ,
Good luck and I do wish you get a better experience with the medical professionals in your corner of the world.
I talk about my experience because that is all i know to assist you in knowing that there is another person that knows exactly what you are talking about.
Kathy