Totally depressed

Hi to everyone.
I hope you are well .
We all need to remember ,we are a mere human-being,we can only do the best we can and leave the rest to our higher power ,he has the power to fix everythings
Despite of all our worries,  we need to have faith and a positive outlook and always wish and hope.

These are the qualities ,that makes some of us stronger than others.
While we are still breathing there is Hope and hope is  priceless.
Tomorrow is another day, all the best to everyone
Kathy

Manal,

I am writing to let you know that we were in the same boat few months back. We found none of us is HLA match to my daughter. We even discussed the IVF and its possibility to have a perfect HLA match child. It didn't work out well. We tried our best and life goes on. We are sure you will overcome these feelings soon (we were there too).

Regards

Dear Manal
             i had same feeling before i got the second child by IFV in LONDON who is match with my son Abdulwahab .. But by IFV you can get 95% match child to your son there is Dr in LONDON his name is HOSAM ABDULLA who work in LESTER HOSPITAL is really experiance... this Dr treat us and we got beutiful girl ....So PLS don't be down and i want you to know that we are with you in the same boat ....
                          ONE FOR ALL AND ALL FOR ONE
                                      KHALIFA

Hi manal,
i totally understand what you are saying and i dont judge your moment of weakness as a mother trying to make sense of  it all.  but it is just a moment and you will face a new day with a smile and your son , like mine would not want another life because they dont know what another life is like.  they only want their family, the hugs, the kisses, the cuddles and all the other medical stuff pales into insignificance when they have their family and fun experiences.

i believe everything happens for a reason.  your son was given to you for a reason.  i have never looked at the BMT option because for us it is not an option.  we spoke to an oncologist early on and were told that there is a 1 chance in 10 of death.  that is way too high a chance for us and we dismissed the option.  i dont care how we have christian in our lives, whether he has tx's, needles everynight, constant hospital visits, we don't care about that - just as long as we have christian in our lives- that is all that matters.  to put christian in a high risk operation with a high chance of death- is incomprehensible for us. 

so manal, maybe the higher powers are giving you some sort of message. keep doing what you are doing.  you are doing amazing things for him and you are constantly monitoring the condition.  we all have a moments.  i have mine many times, and you did the right thing by talking about it because we need to support each other.  i understand where you are coming from particularly as a parent as we have children of similar age.  feel free to talk whenver you need.

vic

Roopa, Emommy, Kathy, Canadian Family, Khalifa and Vic thank you all for your support and understanding. I had this weak moment a year ago and by your support and love i was able to pass it and as you all said i guess it was a message from God saying that there will sure be other solutions and cures. So i will be waiting for this moment with all of you

All the love for you all

Manal

Hi Manal.
 

Together,   we stand strong

you are the kindest.
Love Kathy