Hello amakelly,
I think it would be important for you to learn which type of Alpha Thal Trait are both of you carrying. If both of you have different alpha thal (trait), let's say one of you have Alpha Plus Thal Trait and the other has Alpha Zero Thal Trait, there is a better chance than both of you having the same type of Alpha Trait. In that case, you will have a 25% chance of having a child with Hemoglobin H (which I think, is less severe than Alpha Thal(Major) )
I know this might be a little confusing, but here is a link which can show you with examples, what I am talking about. (They also have a diagram to explain it)
http://www.sickle-thalassaemia.org/Alpha%20Thal.htmWHAT HAPPENS IF ONE PARENT HAS ALPHA PLUS THALASSAEMIA TRAIT AND ONE HAS ALPHA ZERO THALASSAEMIA TRAIT?
If one parent has alpha thalassaemia trait and other parent has alpha zero thalassaemia trait (see example 2); in this instance EACH time they are expecting a child there is a 1 in 4 chance the child could inherit the usual number of alpha genes, a 1 in 4 chance of inheriting alpha zero thalassaemia trait (just like one of their parents), a 1 in 4 chance of inheriting alpha plus thalassaemia trait, (like the other parent) or a 1 in 4 chance of inheriting a condition called HAEMOGLOBIN H DISEASE
Also, note from the same site :-
Testing the baby in the womb is called prenatal diagnosis and can be done as early as ten weeks of pregnancy in most cases. The test is done in a hospital and the result is usually available within 2 - 4 weeks, depending on the type of test you are offered
So, I think it would be worth while to find out what type of Alpha Thal Trait do both of you carry. I think DNA testing is needed for finding it out. But, I think as you are pregnant not sure what that leads to with the time frame.
Also, as Andy has mentioned there is a chance of the child surviving in there is a blood transfusion done while the child is in the womb.
Do update us, so that others in your situation can learn from what you hear from the doctor's. We hope you are in the 25% of normal child.