Before I ask my questions, I just want you to know where I am coming from.
My mother was diagnosed with Thal Minor 2 years ago. She told me not to worry about it passing to me or my siblings because we were half white, therefore we can't get it. She said that the Dr. said he doubted we had it because of my father's ancestry (Canadian French). My mom also has selective hearing. From the sound of it, the Dr. thought she was referring to major or intermedia. She ALSO DIDN'T do ANY research about Thal. For two years, I didn't bother checking. Mom said she was't having any symptoms, so there was nothing to worry about. So, I figured, 'hey, the worst that could happen is that I'm a carrier. What are the chances of me meeting someone else with it even in their family?' I am an american, and less than 1% of american's have this in their family. That's out of over 303 million people. So, like any chicken, I didn't get tested because I didn't want to know. I didn't think I needed to...
...Then came the series of unfortunate events. 1) My very best friend (whom I love like a siamese twin sister) just found out that she has PCOS. She may need an egg donation. I will donate eggs, if I can. I looked up what I needed to do before I could donate, and one of the requirements was have tests run on things, like Thal. Genetic things. 2) That SAME weekend, I found out that my fiance`'s sister was just diagnosed with BTM (in her 3rd pregnancy). Really, what are the odds! 3) Then (as I waited for my Dr. appointment later that week) I found out that we both have a 50% chances of having BTM. So now, they have drawn blood and I should find out the results this week.
...So why am I worried? My life long symptoms cause me the worry. I want to be able to help my friend. I want to have children with my future husband.
My symptoms include:
- Chronic fatigue (I have my awake moments)
- dizzy /light headed (when I was a child, and a year after highschool, I would faint at random)
- My legs hurt more often than not
- my skin always itches
- my hands and feet are always cold and go numb
- Random depression spells (crying, feeling sad-for no reason)
- anxiety
- shortness of breath
- headaches (often)
- I easily get confused, forget things (short term), and lose my train of thought
- I have lots of pain in my joints (especially my knees and since I was a little girl)
- random racing heart
- I bruise easily, and they last a while
- I have those dark places around the bottom (close to my nose) of my eyes
- my mom told me that when I was a baby, I was always trying to eat ashes. Either cigarette or fire ashes.
- I can't seem to get my nails to grow in healthy
When I read this, I think I am nuts. I finally gave my Dr. this list, so I'm sure he secretly thinks I am nuts... My questions are:
1) He (my Dr.) checked my iron(at his office) and the results came back 'fine'. Does this put me in the clear?
2) Has anyone else had their iron checked with the primary care physician and had it come back fine? (it has come back borderline,often, in the past. I always check for iron because I 'seem' anemic)
3) Am I nuts?
I hope it comes back neg. for BTM, mainly because I want to be able to help my friend. I had my blood drawn last Fri. I will not know anything until Thurs. I just want to know what my chances are, for peace of mind, really.