Hi Hayley,
I really feel your pain. I am in the process of being diagnosed with Thal Minor. One test came back borderline, the second came back positive, so now the hemo is doing a third electrophoresis.
In the process, I have gone from thinking I have internal bleeding to who knows what.
I've had a pretty healthy and norma life, though in my late twenties to mid-thirties, I sort of noticed that I seemed to get sick more easily, and with harsher symptoms (I passed out, got extremely tired, etc.)
This year, I just found out about thalassemia after my hemoglobin dropped a full point out of the blue, my platelets count was low....(which may have been due to parvovirus)...
And while I feel SO much better than I did when this all started...I'm still not myself....by Thurs. of the week, I am pretty exhausted and after a week of work, I just want to rest on the weekends.
The doctor tells me thal minor is an "innocent diagnosis" which will cause no problems--just that I shouldn't marry someone with thalassemia.
It's hard to know that something isn't quite right, and not really know what it is. It makes you start to feel a little crazy.
Just FYI---I have been getting the out of breath thing as well (when I walk up stairs?!?!?) and I am not pregnant and I'm in fairly good shape, so it just shouldn't be.
I hope you find a doctor who can help you and ease your worries. Just know you are not alone.
Also, Andy has provided me with more solid information than any doctor I have met so far.
-dahlia