Thanks. Wei turned three in October. She had a few transfusions in China but I can't be sure how many. She has averaged every three weeks since coming home. She did go to the Children's Memorial in Chicago soon after coming home. They did her DNA test and gave me a brief overview of Thal. They referred us to Dr Cornelius at DeVos in Grand Rapids. We were supposed to go back for a liver scan to determine her iron level, but their machine wasn't working properly and scheduling got messed up. They said they would call us. Dr Cornelius, at first recommend a BMT, but with stem cells. I wanted to hold off until I had a better understanding of everything that was going on. He did try the Hydrea (sorry, I know that's the wrong spelling). He told us there were no side effects. The handout with the med said differently. Wei did start losing her hair. After several months we saw no improvement and I discontinued the treatment in favor of Xango. Dr Cornelius seems content to give her blood transfusions and exjade without anything else. I feel I have to fight for everything for her. He doesn't seem to want to explain things to me, rather just tell me how he wants to do it. I finally had a sit down with his nurse practioner and explained to her that I need to understand everything they are doing. I told her that I am responsible to see that she is getting the best treatment possible and to do that they need to explain things to me. I told her that if in 10 or 15 or 20 years we're doing something now that we shouldn't have, they can shrug their shoulders and say "we didn't know". I do not have that option. At the end of the day, at in 10 and 15 and 20 years, she will only be their patient but she will always be my daughter. They weren't too happy with me, but they have to understand that I am ultimately responsible for her care. I've been asking for three months for a more wholistic approach to her care and all they know is that she needs folic acid.
Wei has a port, which has helped so much. She did have her first liver biopsy and the doctor never gave me the reading except to say "it's not alarming".
Maybe I should call Janice again and see if we can get her in again.
Thanks again everyone, I am excited to learn from all of you.
Lori