Hello Ray,
I am truly glad you posted,welcome on the forum.
Which chelator did your doctor prescribe? There are variety of chelators available.
I don't know where you read it but its not true that only ferritin of above 4000 can cause problems,ferritin above normal levels is harmful,and if its persistent it will start loading in your organs which in turn will damage your organs,i am not trying to scare you,but you need to start chelation right away,my daughter transfuses every four weeks but her ferritin level is lower then yours,and we have so many thal majors here who transfuse regularly ,some have managed their iron levels very nicely,others are fighting to bring them down.
When you'll start chelating regularly and your ferritin will be lower,i think it will also help your hb levels to stay more stable,as free iron in the blood does damage red cells,and for this purpose all thals should be taking antioxidants such as Vitamin E ( natural ),IP6,green tea etc.
One more thing i'd like to suggest is Carao,You can read about it in these threads.
http://www.thalassemiapatientsandfriends.com/index.php?topic=1259.0http://www.thalassemiapatientsandfriends.com/index.php?topic=1791.0You should avoid taking high iron food in your diet as when hb is constantly low,body starts absorbing more and more iron from food,so that will just add to your iron overload.Once you start chelation and stay compliant there is no reason you can't bring your ferritin levels down.
Good luck with chelating and feel free to ask if you have any questions in mind.
Zaini.