Hey Bobby,
Glad to meet you. You're in the south where thal is almost unheard of. I'm not surprised doctors had you taking iron. They just don't know any better and often give wrong advice and treatment. What happened with you answers a question we often hear here. Taking iron supplements got your iron so high you almost had to chelate. Like many metals, iron is needed by the body in low doses but is dangerous when it builds up. I'm glad you like tea because drinking tea with meals will inhibit iron absorption from your food and more iron is something you don't need.
I was wondering where you've gotten treated in the south and if you feel your care now is adequate and do the doctors understand thalassemia. It is so rare in that part of the country that patients are often misdiagnosed and given the wrong care.