Hello all. It took me 2 or so weeks to join after reading the site before registering and posting; finally a place to understand and be understood. It made my cry, but wanted to join once I composed myself.
I'm ßTM, 51 with a ßTM 13 yo daughter. Wow. And thank you for these indexed posts on thal pregs. Obviously I'm past my repro years now (I'm now perimenopausal, actually), but could relate to preg symptoms many have described and wanted to share my experiences with you new(er) moms and dads. Aside from the symptoms I've seen posted here of anemia, shortness of breath, fatigue—may I toss in a couple more symptoms/scenarios I experienced, for documentation purposes?:
• Cardiomyopathy (heart wall dysfunction causing incompetent pumping; not recognized til years later) couldn't climb DOWN stairs; extreme dizziness, shortness of breath, fatigue. Had Ejection Fraction of 30.
• extreme edema (started in 2nd month) massive to the point of deformity and put on bedrest; displacement caused back problems and could no longer walk (slipped disc and sciatica nerve damage). Had to remain hospitalized my 9th month to monitor me/my baby
• early false labor, preeclampsia, excessive bleeding at (normal) delivery
• my ßTM baby had to be "returned for repairs" after 2 days due to HIGH RBC that weren't oxygenating properly, becoming cyanotic, plus brachycardia (slow HB)
• I should have had a transfusion; was severely anemic and dehydrated; could barely nurse (only 1 month).
I was so happy with my husband and pregnancy, I willed myself thru it all. No doctor was willing to venture into thal theories, everything was treated separately. After reading all your posts and this forum, I shake my head and well-up when I think of how so much could have been managed differently or prevented altogether.
My overall health has declined following this one pregnancy and was told not to have more (my one single regret).
Following exposure to Preschool germs, with lowered resistance I developed asthmatic bronchitis, now COPD. Because I have started swelling again, I will be undergoing tests this week to determine returning Cardiomyopathy and possible Pulmonary Hypertension. So, I ask: Is there anyone with any experience with ßTM correlated with Pulmonary Hypertension? With cyclic edema in left lower extremity (leg), then both? I would greatly appreciate any and all input. Thank you.
I venture to say that all these conditions have one basic root. When cells cannot oxygenate and cycle properly (sorry for lack of med terms/details), all kinds of systems incompetence and failure precipitate insidiously. Doctors only treat symptoms, and only as separate because after all, ßTM is asymptomatic and any idiopathic condition might just be in your head.
In fact, I was once told prior to my dx of cardiomyopathy that I had Anxiety (which imo is lazy-speak for doctors who are arrogant or unskilled/unmotivated diagnosticians. Those are fighting words to any competent female who knows her body and is looking out for the best interests of her baby.
I'm winding this up with the topic to say BEWARE and don't let any doctor, esp a gyno or hemo doctor tell you that ßTM only has mild anemia symptoms, if any. I urge new moms/dads to find another doctor who cares enough to do the right thing by you and your baby. Pregnancy with ßTM can have serious, long-range ramifications—and the fallout is so regrettable when it is so PREVENTABLE.
Thank you for this forum. This alone has provided some vindication of medical suspicions. If my experiences help—lovely! ...if only for prevention and awareness. Good luck to you all wanting kids! Parenthood is a joy and children a blessing... no matter what.