So, after poking my head I here a few times a year or so ago, I then fell pregnant and dropped off pretty much all internet places I used to visit hehe. Want to share the story of my pregnancy in the hope that it could help someone else. I've known about my thal for a few years now, never needed a transfusion.
I am now the proud mumma of a little boy. He's 7weeks old, but it's been an adventure, a rough start for him, so I just wanted to share our experiences .
Was considered high risk in my pregnancy due to mental health ( GAD and ADHD), high BMI, borderline hypertension, family history of type 2 diabetes, asthma, and my thal (εγδβ Zero thalassemia ). I tried to insist to the obstetric doctors that my type of thal can affect the baby, they insisted that because my husband wasn't a carrier, that I was wrong. I figured they would know because I ( wrongly ) assumed they had read the full report of the genetic testing, and that would of informed them of the rate of inheritance for this condition, and its severity in newborns.
Pregnancy went along. Kiddo wasn't a big mover, only really felt him occasionally and only from 24+ weeks. Everyone assumed it was due to my placenta bring at the front and being over weight, but the coming events proved that he was most likely a tired lil man inutero.
Ended up with gestational diabetes, was eventually on both metformin and 2 diff insulins. Also at 35ish weeks ended up with gestational hypertension with was borderline pre eclampsia, but they just watched.
Then suddenly my waters broke at 36+ 3, with meconium present, and everything in my pregnancy turned upside down. I was induced , very quick labour, absurd amount of pain, and my little boy was distressed and got worn out from labour, my contractions stopped, but got him out naturally ( forceps though) but he wasn't breathing, low apgars, he was jaundice and anaemic, had blood under the skin at the back of his head ( subgaleal haematoma), low birth weight, and got wisked to NICU.
Because the hospital had no bloody clue about εγδβ Zero thalassemia, hadn't read my notes properly, they just assumed that his birth complications were due to being premmie. It wasn't until he was over 2 weeks old, we had gone home and been re admitted due to poor weight gain, severe feeding issues ( that we had in hospital but the midwives were absolutely useless and made it worse cos they didn't listen to me) that the neonatologist actually chased up my insistence that he and I had similar neonatal period, that it can affect inutero and infancy, that they called a paediatric haematologist who confirmed the high likelihood he has my condition.
He's since had 2 blood transfusions. His hb went from 94 to 120 shortly after birth, and then dropped off continually till it hit 66 so they transfused him . We were then referred to Westmead Children's hospital, and I spoke to the first person since he was born who didn't think I was a hypochondriac mother, making a fuss about a baby who was just being difficult , insisting to me he was perfectly healthy now, and that he was a different baby from in NICU (where he had more energy) . His haematologist is amazing. She told me to call up when he started to go backward with feeding and I did and we were admitted that night. His hb was 69. She said my awareness and response to him not coping was spot on, that made me feel so much better.
4 days later we had a follow up, his hb was 114 - where mine is normally!!
Our specific type of thalassemia is so rare, there is just 1 other family in NSW ( our state) with a similar deletion. It turns out that before 6 months, when adult hb is supposed to have taken over, transfusions are often needed. He will need further transfusion top ups, but as the adult hb kicks in more, they will be further apart. The first gap was just 19 days.
I knew it was super rare, but I didn't realise there was anyone who knew anything remotely about it. And I didn't realise the extent of the severity for Bub under 6 months. I never had a transfusion but I was known as "the pale one" in hospital, and I was jaundice and anaemic and did want to eat, tired, colicky etc- same as my little man. I wasn't as early as him but I was small and I was 41 weeks.
I took 5mg of folate through the whole pregnancy. My hb didn't do anything that required transfusions. I didn't have the most likely issues that are reported in the research ( oligohydraminos and IUGR) but he was still small and early considering the gestational diabetes, and uterus was measuring ahead for weeks of gestation.... So I guess it could of turned out a lot worse.
Any who, I hope anyone who is pregnant on this forum. You gotta advocate for yourself and your bubba. He was my first. I had trouble advocating cos I had a tired exhausted bubba who was being forced to breast feed with a tongue tie and severe anaemia, feeding every 2-3 hours, taking torever to feed, and I got literally no sleep. It's improved now , he's gone from a birth weight of 2414gs to 3310 gs. He doesn't look like a skinny premmie anymore thank god.
Even if they tell you you Bub can't be affected, they aren't always right. Trust your instincts. Get a second opinion until someone listens to you.
Sorry for the absurd length!!