Hello Melanie and welcome to the site,
In answering your question about the possibility of having normal ranges and at the same time the doctor says you are a carrier, the answer is YES this could happen.
There are many different kinds of beta thal mutations, some are clearly expressed in the patients' blood picture and may lead to severe anemia and other side effects and some mutations are just silent, meaning they are there and can be inherited but does not reflect in blood test and even some may not know about it at all ( which was my case)
So you could be a silent carrier of beta thalassemia. What will confirm this and even give you the kind of mutation is a DNA test.
One more point, Hb A2 is only reliable when there is NO iron defiency anemia ( i don't think you are defiecnt since your HB is around 13) and usually 3.4% and above indicate being a carrier.
Is it true that my child is at a 25% risk for thalassemia major?
The answer is yes. If both parents are confirmed carriers, this is the right percentage. But i want to let you know that knowing this fact is not annoying, you should consider yourself lucky cause you have many options there.
It is important to do either CVS test or aminothentesis test by which you can check if the baby has inherited the muted genes or not (thal major) and if yes you can decide whether you will continue with the pregnancy or not.
Please feel free t oask as many questions as you want and make sure we are here for you to support you and clarify anything
Take care
manal