Thank you all so much for your messages,
I had a fever last night (38 C) but I feel much better now. My daugter is the only one who did not feel the effects of the vaccines, but I think it may be because she only received half the dose. She will have a booster in three weeks.
Narendra, thank you so much for the advise. I will be sure keep up our fluids and get lots of rest. Manal, lil A does not have a cough associated with his fever, yet. I am hopeful that this may have been a result of the vaccine and not the actual flu. Unfortunately with him, the protocol is to err on the side of caution - meaning tamiflu and antibiotics. Because of rituximab, his B cells have been suppressed , therefore he cannot easily create antibodies against new illnesses (is he protected against older viruses etc through IVIG) so the docs take extra caution with him. People who are not immunosuppressed probably would not get the same treatment.
Lil A also felt better by the evening, but I am letting him sleep in this morning. My experience with him is that he oftens gets better and then fever hits him again so I am going to be cautious. He wants to go to school because he has a soccer game. Can you believe that he played a soccer game yesterday, and that he did very well moments before telling me that he had the chills and coming down with a 40 C fever?
I was told something very profound by one of the adult thal patients in NYC, a beautiful young lady who is a nurse. She told me that when most people are moving around at 80% when they are practising for a race - and 100% when running the actual race - she said thals are always at 100%. Thals learn to push through low hg, aches, maladies, etc etc but they work harder so that they are still performing as well as everyone else. I was so moved by these people, and I am happy to say that my little guy seems to be doing his best all of the time too.
Sharmin