Hi cjhcurtiss ,
Some of your questions are answered in a post I did earlier today.
See
http://www.thalassemiapatientsandfriends.com/index.php?topic=3170.msg31850#msg31850Narendra has also compiled a group of threads that deal with the various issues that may arise in thal minor pregnancies. You can see this list at
http://www.thalassemiapatientsandfriends.com/index.php?topic=3041.msg30075#msg30075One very important area of consideration in some thal minor pregnancies is miscarriage. Some minors experience multiple miscarriages. This is most likely due to insufficient blood flow between the uterus and placenta, a result of clotting issues during pregnancy. Vitamin E offers some blood thinning properties and may be of some help. Often, doctors will prescribe one baby aspirin daily. I mention this only because it is a recurring problem in some thal minor women, and it helps to be aware. Your blood test results look very normal for thal minor and your Hb, while lower than a non-thal's, is higher than what we hear from many pregnant women, so right now I think your tests look good.
Some thal minor women will need iron during pregnancy just as any other woman's iron demands will be higher during pregnancy, so this needs to be determined based on the mother's needs. I agree with Expecting#2 that it helps to have a hematologist with some knowledge of thalassemia involved. Every woman should take folic acid during pregnancy, and with thal minor, a dose of at least 2 mg daily is advised.
You should help yourself and forget about the diet pills after you have the baby. The long term effects can be devastating. A nutritional approach to managing your health will be much healthier in the long run, and will help you be the parent you want to be. Your hemoglobin level will always cause some physical limits, but you can help yourself by making sure you get a nutritious diet and take the supplements that can help build blood and provide more energy. As you look through the thalassemia minor posts, you will see that many minors have the same symptoms. It is not well known among the medical profession but from the hundreds of minors who have joined this site, we have to believe that symptoms are fairly common among minors whose hemoglobin levels are below normal, especially at lower levels. Your level is mid-range for thal minor but you might be able to bump it up a little with an emphasis on nutrition. Thal creates more demand than normal for most nutrients and from another post you made, I think you've already seen how important vitamin D is. This is where minors can help themselves. You won't get much accurate information about thal minor from most doctors so it it necessary to educate yourself and accept for now that the doctors don't have access to much information about thal minor.