Aubrey is so blessed you are becoming a care expert for her. This site gives people the ability to understand. I do not know anything about the issue your daughter has, but, since you speak of how difficult this is, I want to encourage you. When I was diagnosed a fairly grim picture was painted for my future. In the 35 years since, I have found doctors to be wrong, much more than they are right. Please keep confident that in educating yourself like this you can make a HUGE difference in your daughters life. And, make sure she always knows she can do whatever she wants. Best wishes to both of you, OldThalGal