I want to share something here..
Recently I went to a hospital doctor for Iv antibiotics because I had a bad infection and I couldn't take pills. Under normal circumstances, I would think it wise to tell doctors that I am a very symptomatic thal minor, who is allergic to a lot of medications.
The reply I got was - "Someone has PUT this (wrong) thought in your head that thal minor is the cause of any of your problems."
I have learnt one thing with numerous such experiences, that in my case, its wiser I dont mention my thal minor status at all. Then I get treated properly, and no one looks at me like i'm crazy. :-) Even if i do have side effects, they are quite prompt in treating that too. I suppose these are ego issues, not all doctors take kindly to being told that theyre unaware of something, or that their patients know better.
The other thing is - if a doctor cannot help you at all, its time to find a new one. I have done it several times, till i finally found a few doctors who really do help me a lot.
Its best to be aware ourselves, and do what helps us.
Yes, deep breathing helps a lot, even 5 deep breaths with eyes closed, many times a day - it reduces the anxiety, etc. Takes a few days of conscious practice, then habit sets in.
About thal minor and iron deficiency, what people dont realise is that it is possible to be iron deficient, and need iron, but getting that iron to actually absorb is the tough part. I have faced it for a good 20 years with no results.
Lastly - patience and persistence helps. Keep trying and eventually you find what works best for you. :-)
(I was all charged to up to write this, i hope i've not posted in the wrong place!)
:-)