Hi April,
I am Thal Minor and I too had or still have (don't know) PCOS. I have been pregnant 4 times and have had no problems.
Anyways, so lets go step by step-
1) My periods were very irregular and I believe it was because of PCOS. I too am slightly (raised to the power of two) over weight and have had some issues with facial hair. I did consult two doctors back in India (I am now in US) and got two different perspectives. One stressed me a lot as it indicated that I may never get pregnant and also may end up with cervical cancer etc etc. I thought this was an extreme, besides, the doctor also suggested I be quite about the whole thing because of the taboo associated with infertility.
Anyways so the other more practical advise came from a family doctor, who definitely explained the relationship between lack of ovulation and PCOS. But at the same time, she asked me not to worry and just keep a check on my weight. So on a daily basis, I had to take care of my weight issues, and then when I wanted to get pregnant, I had to go for hormonal treatment. So when the time came, I took the pill called YASMIN.
Please remember exercise, diet and happy state of mind are key in the whole process, so DO NOT STRESS YOURSELF.
2)A lot of women have PCOS. It is very normal. As per some statistics that I read, almost 40%of women in their reproductive age in India have PCOS and this number has been on the rise. So again, do not take it lightly, but also do not get stressed. Just be disciplined with the mantra of proper nutrition,and exercise. It helps a LOT!!!
3) So coming back to hormonal pills. Since, my doctor sensed my apprehension with taking hormonal pills, so she suggested I take them for three months (instead of straight 6 months) and then get an ultra sound done. If the Ultrasound shows that the cysts have subsided, then I can stop the pills and start trying to get pregnant. It normally takes one month for the birth control pill to loose its effect in the body. We stopped the pill in October after a clear ultrasound and by December end I was pregnant.
4) I do know of 2-3 more women with PCOS and they all have babies today.
Some went for the birth control pill option, which subsides the cysts, while others went for pills that work on increasing ovulation. You can choose whichever path is recommended by your doctor. It has worked for me and the people I know.
AGAIN-
Please remember exercise, diet and happy state of mind are key in the whole process, so DO NOT STRESS YOURSELF.
Hope this helps.