Have you had your iron checked? In addition to serum ferritin. you should have a liver MRI, Ferriscan if possible, as iron load is not easily determined by ferritin alone in thals who don't regularly transfuse. Also, I would like to know the results once the lymph node that is removed has been tested. It is most likely the result of a low immune system, but if anything is found, it will affect any advice given.
There is no reason to be alarmed about how much time you have left. You only need some direction. If iron is an issue, it can be addressed with chelation. I will say that many thals who have not chronically transfused, do choose to transfuse as they get older, as it can make a huge difference to quality of life. With today's chelation choices, this is a much easier choice to make. Are you currently taking Exjade? With your history of extramedullary growths, regular transfusions may be the best course, with a goal of keeping Hb no lower than 9.5. I see no reason why you can't turn things around. Are you also taking folic acid?
You may benefit from contacting Eileen at CAF. I think you should try to be seen at one of the Centers of Excellence to get a full evaluation and have a treatment program designed that you can follow locally. I cannot stress the importance of this enough. My observation is that patients seen annually at these Centers are healthier and outliving patients who are not in a managed care program. I have become very passionate about this, as patients in the US are still dying far too young, when they could survive with properly managed care.
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