I'm sorry this is off topic but i had to reply to Patricks starement because it really hit me....Patrick you stayed home alone at 3 or 4???!!! Oh my! That must have been so difficult for your mom and yourself! It breaks my heart to hear that she had to do that to pay the bills. I can't imagine my 4 year old alone in our home. How did you manage not to get out of the home or get into anything in the home?
Haha,
There was a babysitter till I was 4 or so at our house, but she had to eventually leave the job due to her age requiring her time to be devoted more to herself. My brother (elder) used to come from school at around 2 PM or so, and left for tuition's at around 3 PM. The neighbors did kept an eye on me from time to time (they had the keys of my home as well) and see if I need anything, very fortunate enough to have neighbors like that (although we changed our house when I was 8 or 9, but new neighbors were great as well). Well, I got used to it, actually, as a child, on many days (maybe the couple of year ending months I guess?) I used to see my mother sitting nearby when I used to come from kindergarten and I used to be overjoyed to see her sitting and used to ask, "Mom, you won't go today at the job back, right? You've taken a half day right?" and she used to shook her had lightly and I was joyed. Great days. I knew value of like what was spending time with parents - I used to grab every single minute or moment I used to get with them. Although, evenings were a rejoice - we used to and still have great time together.
About not getting out of house - I think thal major made by intelligent or grown up faster - I could understand at the age of 3 that the needle that the doctor is going to poke me every 14-15 days is for my betterment and will run life long like this, so let's take this as challenge rather than a curse. I could understand the do's and don'ts, what outdoors should I do and what I shouldn't, what my interests were and what weren't. So things were pretty good for me and supportive, most importantly. My friends, family and most importantly - all teachers during my lifetime were very supportive, understanding and listening. My friends and teachers as well never let me feel like I'm some other kid than a normal one, they always had my back.
So, that's how life is for me and I'm sure your baby will be as strong and if not - even more than me. And with this advance treatments coming through - leave the worries behind - just enjoy the life, hell yeah...!
And it's
Pratik and not Patrick, hehe (Although I can't blame it, most people take that as my name, mainly from outside of India), hehe.
-P.