I am a 33 guy from Singapore.
My mother is a Thal minor (ancestors from Indonesia and Malacca) and my father is a Thal carrier (ancestors from Malacca and China). I am an only child as a result of the risk that my parents face if they had more children. A few of my cousins from my mother's side are Thal minors.
I was diagnosed as HbE Thal Maj when I was 3 years old when I was admitted to hospital with bad diarrhoea. However, it was only in the last 10 years that the diagnosis was changed to Thal Int (I think due to the better understanding of the disease).
My Hb levels hover around 8 - 9. I can't remember my ferretin levels but my liver function test always turn out fine. I go for check-ups once a year.
My facial feature resemble that of a Thal Maj. High cheekbones - protruding jaw. The whites of my eyes are always yellowish (high bilirubin count) and I am perpetually green in the face
(jaundiced). I am 1.7 m.
When I was called up for the national service, the medical officer exempted me saying that he did not want the public to think that they have been ill-treating me
Another medical officer said that he did not want me fainting around in the office
.
I've never been transfused. Although my spleen is enlarged, it is still there! X-rays have found extra cells behind my lungs (the size of oranges) which help me produce more red blood cells in my body (extra-medullary haemopoesis) which ordinary doctors thought were cancer cells! My gall bladder was removed when I was 16 as a result of deposits due to the fast breakdown of the red blood cells. My bones are fragile (broke both my arms 3 times in my life). At 30, I had a liver abscess which again the surgeons blamed on Thalassemia (weak constitution). I now have a high uric acid level, leading to gout, which again was blamed on Thal.
My body is perpetually warm and I need a fan blowing at me even during winter.
I have been prescribed folic acid and vitamin C my whole life. About 3 years ago, a new haematologist prescribed oral chelation for me (Desferral). I took 6 tablets a day (at a cost of SGD600 a month!). The drug made me nauseous
and made me listless during work hours. I stopped taking it myself.
I lead quite an active life
and used to play badminton until gout set in. I have backpacked Italy alone and travel very often. I run my own company with 6 staff in a very difficult and stressful line. My days are filled with meetings and out of office work and my evenings and weekends are spent doing volunteer work at church and 5 other organisations. There are just so many things to do in this world
that I am still single.
I do not agree with the termination of life as an option given to parents carrying Thal major babies. If my parents had chosen to abort, I would not be here today.
I just thank the Lord for giving me a new day every day and will take each associated problem as they come along.