Manal,
I was reading your posts regarding bone deformation etc... Here in the states, when to tx varies according to different doctors when hgb levels get to a certain point.
I know you said Ahmads md wont transfuse him because he is so active. I know he would most likely tx if he were here.
My point is, as hard as it is for me to say, why not just start him on the transfusions, to avoid any deformities? We are all humans, no matter where we live and I've read that deformities happen when you are in the low sevens. Not to mention sixs! Olivia (my cousin) had a 6.3 hgb when she was diagnosed, and her forehead is pertruding quite noticeably. Since she has been on hydroxy, shes been soooo much better (9.2).
Tx'ing is scary, but in my opinion, a BMT for an intermedia is too drastic a measure to take. Especially when you havent tried every other option first.
Love,
Christine