Hi Zaini
Actually your concern was mine two ot three months ago as my case is like yours, so i guess i can answer some of your questions.
When i discussed transplantations with the specialist he did agree that cord BT is truely the least to be matched compared to BMT or unrelated donors. But he meant by the ''least'' is 8 antigenes out of 10. To me this is not the meaning of ''least''. The only concern he said with the cord blood is that sometimes after transplantations and due to complications or rejection from the patient body he may want to induce more stem cells from the donor to the patient and this is easy if the donor is an adult either in unrelated donor or sibling. But in cord BT it is difficult because stem cells are taken once since they are already few in the cord blood which is used only once so it is a one chance transplantation.
As Sharmin mentioned the safest is the CBT of a matched sibling in order to ensure high success rate and to cover the drawback that i have mentioned above since it is easy to have more stem cells in case you need.
IVF: is when you concieve out side the uterus where conception occurs in a tube in the lab and then transfered to the uterus where pregnancy continues.
PGD: Before you transfer the embroys to the uterus a PGD specialist takes the embroys ( usually in IVF, you normally have from 15 to 20 embroys ) and make biopsy for these embroys ( biopsy of the polar body or the blastomere depending on the case ) and the embroys that are suitable ( in your case, it will be an embryo that matches the HLA of your daughter and with no thal or thal minor ) will be transfered to the uterus to continue the pregnancy.
Usually the sucess rate of each embryo to continue the pregnancy is 30% and in some really good centers it can reach 45-50% and by the way this is the normal percentage if some one concieved normally . That is why in IVF you find many twins or triples because each one has his 30% and a twin makes it 60% and so on
If pregnancy went well you do a CVS or aminosenthesis ( definetly the spelling is wrong) to confirm the PGD results. The success rate of PGD in thal and HLa type is up to 98%
Concerning the embroys, you have 3 suitable ones ( matched HLA and tha minor or no thal ) every 16 embroys
Zaini, i have contacted a well known center concerning this issue (the good ones are found in chicago and was recommended by many doctors) and they gave me all the info and all the prices, so if you need them just PM me and i will forward them to you.
Sorry for answering Sharmin question. Please Sharmin add anything i forgot
Manal