Hi Manal,
I can almost feel your words, and the confusion you are dealing with. Although my husband and I havent had to make any definitave decisions for Lauryn ,YET, I know the day will come shortly. We are juggling the idea of the port. No matter which way we think is best,there is always the "what ifs?".
In my opinion, and especially since hearing the other intermedias expieriences on this site, I would not go through with this potential treatment. I think it's inevitable that Ahmad will eventually need transfusions. No one knows how long any of the meds. will work for intermedias. We do know,though that transfusions work. Yes, it is so scary. With tx's comes chelation, but you ALMOST know what to expect. Like you mentioned before, the meds., have no guarantees as of right now. I am kind of contradictating myself though,b/c my baby cousin is on hydroxyurea (for inter.) and she is doing very well AT THIS MOMENT. My cousin (the mother) figures every day that goes by without having needed the transfusion,the better the baby is. BUT< who knows the long term side effects? AGAIN, anything can happen to anyone of us anytime. We cannot worry about long term,because we are wasting the present. Did you do any research regarding any other thals who have had the treatment you are talking about?Can you get a second opinion? I am confusing myself right now, because there is so much running through my head and I cannot express it through typing. I wish we could talk in person. i'd give you such a big hug. :hug You know whats best for your baby. Go with your maternal instinct. If you feel it's worth a try,then go for it! It can't hurt. Just know whatever you decide, your doing whats best for your child. I will pray for you for your despair.
Love,
Christine