thanks for all your understanding and support
it's nice to know that this isn't all in my mind. i have an apt. with my dr. on monday and i think i will give her the link to this website and tell her to read it over...... the dr. that isn't being understanding is my kid's dr. he's just one of those guys who goes by the book. i know that he's doing the best he can as a dr., but sometimes there are just people who don't have "textbook" cases and need to be treated accordingly. like you said, we are the only ones who know our bodies and no one can really understand this desease until they've lived with it. and i've been living with it for 27 years, my mom has for 55 years, and my grandparents for 80+ years and they think we don't know what we're talking about?
we have had some good luck though with the base. they are putting us on a program called the "exceptional family member program" so that once all that paperwork is filled out, we can get on the list to get in the air conditioning houses. i'll keep you posted on what happens
again, thanks for all the support guys, it makes me so happy to know that me and my girls are not alone
take care!