hi debbie....
myself and my two daughters, ages 4 and almost 2, are living with thal in a small desert town with military dr.s taking care of us.........not the best situation in my opinion. but, i just wanted to add that, while growing up i didn't have many problems with thal except for very heavy, painful menstruation. sometime to the point of getting so weak, i would pass out. while my daughters are still very young, i know that there isn't much that is needed to be done on a daily basis for them to treat the disorder, but i also just watch for signs that their blood might be a little low. loss of appitite, less desire to play, paleness, sleepiness, etc..... some day when they hit puberty, i'll know that especially during "that time of the month" they are more likely to be weak and less active. for now i just make sure they get plenty of rest and eat all their fruits and veggies...lol..like most parents
and when my daughters are old enough to have babies, they'll just have to do what me and my husband did and get tested to make sure their husbands don't have the gene as well or anything else that could affect the disorder. hemoglobin electrophyresis tests all that stuff i think. and during pregnancy the blood levels will just have to be monitored so that if they get too low, a transfusion may be an option. when i was pregnant with my second daughter, my hemoglobin got down to almost a 6 and the dr. said, one more count lower, you'll be getting a transfusion. thank god, it went back up. my mother had 2 transfusions while pregnant with my brother and i. as far as sinus infections, i don't know if there is a real connection, but i will tell you that both of my daughters have horrible allergies and sinus problems. my youngest is getting tubes in her ears this week because of constant runny noses that become ear infections.......if there is a connection, i'm not aware of it.
oh, and because you mentioned that the dr.s in your town are not familiar with the disorder, i want to add one more note....don't let them give your child extra iron unless an iron count is done and proves low. my kids' pediatrician is the same way and isn't very educated in this area and wanted to pump my child full of iron because her hemoglobin was low. i told him that i wasn't going to give it to her until he proved her iron was low and she needed it. when he finally did the test, her iron levels came back normal. just because a thal has low hemoglobin doesn't necessarily mean low levels of iron. a child can easily overdose on iron when it's not needed. please keep that in mind throughout her childhood.
good luck with everything and be sure to do your own homework and reading and arm yourself with as much knowledge as you can because i've learned that's the best way to truly understand what's going on. i've lost a lot of trust in dr.s these days.
take care!