Hi Anae,
I am sure you have thought about the consequences of not chelating while making the decision to stop desferal and realize what this will mean in the long term. I will admit that I have a hard time understanding how patients can choose to not chelate, but I am not a thal and cannot walk a mile in any thal's shoes. I have lost quite a few friends because they would not chelate and just last week lost another friend from the Maldives. He was only 20 years old. The amount of thals not chelating regularly in the Maldives is alarming, especially considering that desferal is free there, and the decision to not chelate is solely based on their own view of their lives and whether or not it is worth living. I talk to thals over and over about their failure to chelate and feel it is my duty to encourage them and show them how there are always things about life that make it worth living, but again, I cannot experience life as a thal, so I will never be able to fully appreciate how they feel. Nor can I ever understand what it means to have lived your life, Anae, and why at this point you have made this choice to not chelate.
However, my advice would be to try exjade. Yes, it can have some side effects but most of these are temporary and some can be avoided by starting low dose for a couple weeks. Try 500 mg a day and see if it agrees with your system. Most doctors will tell you to take more than that but patients who have started on low dose have had some success in avoiding the rash and also the stomach discomfort, that many patients have. If after two weeks, you are doing ok, raise the dose to 750 mg per day. If you continue to tolerate it, slowly raise your dose to the maximum level, as it can't be argued that your ferritin is far too high. One other suggestion would be to try the supplement IP6 (phytic acid). It is from the B family of vitamins and is a natural iron chelator. It is a strong anti oxidant and has also been shown to have some positive effect in diabetics and is the topic of much research into cancer prevention because of its ability to inhibit the damage done to cells by iron. There are also the well known steps you can take, drinking tea with meals to help prevent iron absorption from food, and avoiding citrus with meals, as it aids iron absorption.
I hope you will consider exjade. It is helping many people. One more note, I don't know if ferrirpox is available to you but if it is, it should also be considered. We have a member of this group, Ashish Vazirani, who has recently observed his 20th anniversary of using kelfer, which is the same drug as ferrirpox.