Manal,
I felt guilty of myself because I am fully aware of the presence of thal and specifically asked husband to check and knew that he is thal minor but we did not try to figure out more as my dr. said I have no thal. If I would have researched more and not jumped to conclusion, I would have been able to prevent this. I do not understand why the dr. not aware of silent carrier. When dr. told me that they suspected that my daughter has thal intermedia, I called my 2 dr. who delivered my 2 girls for me and they both said that I am not thal. Anyway, I am blessed with an elder daughter who does not have this issue. I did not do amnio during my pregnancy, but even if I found out my second one to have thal, I would never think of giving up and will still try my very best to take care of her. I am praying everyday that she will not need regular transfusion and will be able to lead a normal life. Is it true that intermedia means no regular transfusion? Can I jump into conclusion like this? I believed that God gave this child to me because he has trust in me and my family that we will have the strength and love to give the best care to this child.
We need to see all of them with lovely red face.