Hello, Faith's Momma here.
Faith is transfused every 3 weeks and has been for awhile. Even though Eileen Scott (Cooley's Anemia's Foundation) told me to keep her hgb above 10 at the time of transfusion, her doctor refuses, usually only transfuses at 9 or close to it.
Faith's hgb has been dropping rapidly lately, over the past month, and this has never happened to us in the 3 years since we adopted her from Vietnam.
Example, Faith had abdominal pain, high blood sugar (has reactive hypoglycemia and usually has low sugars) and was screaming in pain a few weeks ago. E.R. doc said she was fine, he said he didnt want to take blood or urine, even tho I suggested it. He said, she is fine, go home and have her rest...HUH??ARE U KIDDING ME??
This pain went on for a week and a half or so with an extreme loss of appetite. Her belly really hurt after she ate lil bits of food each time. She was miserable and complained of constant stomach pain.
Had ct scan of pelvic area and abdomen,,,showed everything (appendix and such) looked fine and that she was not full of poop either, so this was not the reason for her pain.
They then referred us to the gastro clinic. Their first available appt is July, ya that will be helpful!! Grrrrrrr, says this Momma bear!!
The pain has lessened a bunch.
Now, over the past few weeks, Faiths hgb has continually dropped.
Week one Monday hgb 12.2
week two Monday 8.0 (it never drops this fast for her, usually a gram a week)we found out her hbg level while drawing a cbc for the ct scan of the belly.
notified hem dr of hgb, next day Wednesday received transfusion
6 days later, Tuesday, hgb 10 (usually its 12)
next morning hgb 9.5
I asked the dr and he said that he will discuss it with me next week on MOnday...WHAT THE HECK???
I have emailed him every time Faith has an issue. He said to me yesterday, well you have emailed and contacted us alot, so we need to discuss some things. He acted like I was bothering him, wouldnt tell me what he wanted to discuss on Monday. He was quite snippy with me!!UGH!
Eileen told me to look for a new hematologist as this whole, not listening to me and acting like I am a pain or a QUACK has gone on for some time now.
He wont transfuse her often enough, he wont explain to me why possibly her hbg keeps dropping and I am FRUSTRATED AND ANGRY TO SAY THE LEAST!!
WHAT A JACKASS!
Why should I have to fight for him to see her needs? He treats me like I am crazy! I explained to him that I do not sit at home thinking up illnesses or complications. I told him that we have 4 other children and I have plenty of things that I could be doing with my time. I told him that my daughter nor myself want to spend our lives in a hospital and that really I WOULD RATHER BE HOME BAKING COOKIES!!
He said, I will see u on MOnday and walked out of the room.
What if her hgb keeps dropping like this and by Monday its 7, or 6??
Any ideas? Eileen suggested possibly her spleen is malfunctioning causing it to destroy good and bad cells (new and old).
Any thoughts on the dropping hgb?
Anyone know of a kind doctor that appreciates an attentive parent that we could switch my daughter to in MIssouri??
I am so frustrated!!
Can you respond to me at heart1054@hotmail.com pretty please?
Im so worn out from this....as is my daughter....poor thing!
Thank u for any and all advice
Bambi