Hi Loy,
I'm new to this forum but I'm from Sabah, Malaysia. I'm wondering whether you've done the DNA testing. I think if you need counselling, maybe the hematologist would be able to advice you as I don't think in Malaysia we can find many people who are qualified to do genetic counselling unless you would like to travel to Singapore, they have better medical facilities but it will cost you a fortune. On second account, if you get yourself admitted to the government specialist clinics, the cost for DNA analysis is somewhat "free" or fully funded from the government. I only pay RM5 everytime I go for the thal clinic which gives me blood test and free folic acid everytime.
I've Alpha Thalassemia too, but the more complex type with Codon 59 mutation. In fact I've run around for looking for answers to my anemia without finding out I'm actually alpha thal because I did a HB Electrophoresis with Pathlab which suggests I had no thal. This is what brought to my conclusion, I'm otherwise, a healthy adult and married my husband.
Only on my 1st pregnancy I found I had problems with my low HB which lead to more and more blood test to come out with the conclusion, my gynae don't know what's wrong with me sent me to another consultant for more test; government polyclinic without doing any testing insructed me to take more and more iron resulting in my iron overload, lastly my GP sent me to the government specialist clinic after my delivery, thinking I may get answers to my problem with the conventional bone marrow testing because he's otherwise baffled what's wrong and its beyond his expertise ...
On admission to the thal clinic, it went on quite smooth sailing although I get a bit upset at times, with the doctors(very junior doctors telling me I'm fine, the pains, etc are "normal".. Otherwise, its a good source to find out your what type specifically is your alpha, and I would add on..When I was pregnant with my 2nd child, I'll directly get myself referred to the OBS clinic where they will keep watch of your HB religiously till you deliver on top of the normal thal clinic appointments.
As a conclusion, its important to know what type of alpha trait you have for your future planning. For me, I only get to know it too late but its not all lost. Both my children gets their DNA testing done gy government hospital(sent to IMR), at least I know they carry my bad gene but it will help them to plan for the future.